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Open Minded, Curious, and Scared….

Umm, today’s topic is about bisexuality… not women’s… because if popular opinion is believed, all women in the lifestyle are bisexual.

WHOA NOW… if you are a straight woman in the lifestyle and are thinking WTH is she talking about…. don’t worry… I don’t believe that popular opinion. I actually know it is a line that most say to have more play opportunities… I mean seriously… if they list as bi-ANYTHING they have more play chances…

And yet on the other side of the coin…. bi – ANYTHING for a guy is a death sentence to a couple looking for a little play time… even if the bi-play for guys is not on the table… as if by being a bi-anything guy you will aggressively attack the other guy…

You know what I mean… the bi-anything guy will take the SO STRAIGHT IT HURTS guy’s cock from his pants and begin sucking on it…

Now, I am not a cock owner… so I don’t know if what I am about to say is true…. but if you are truly turned off by another man sucking your cock… wouldn’t you have difficulty getting it up?

An even bigger question to ask… if a guy was going towards your cock… wouldn’t you be able to…. I don’t know… move out of the way and keep your cock away from the bi-anything guy?

Or even better… say when you are looking at their profile and you find HER hot and you are not into bi anything… because you are so straight it hurts…. couldn’t you say… “hey, I wanna play with your wife… my wife wants to play with you… they may play some together… but umm… we won’t be playing none of that guy/guy stuff…. ”

So…. why does putting down that you are open minded, bi-curious, bi-sexual or whatever terms others use…. a death sentence for guys and an open invitation for women?

I mean nothing bad or insinuating bi-anything men would simply grab another man’s cock that is listed as straight or has not had any communication about the possibility of bi play with the other guy…

I know that most guys in the lifestyle that do openly admit to their bi-anything status know how precious it is to get a couple who are not afraid of him being bi-anything… they are not going to risk a reputation or a fist in their face for making a ‘bad’ decision like that….

However, that is one of the biggest fears… that the bi-anything guy is going to make a move on them….

And I wonder if the real fear goes deeper to… what if they like it?

What if a guy who has always identified as straight… and always felt straight… suddenly found himself intrigued by the thought of sucking another man’s cock covered in his wife’s juices…

Now, one can rationalize that he is just open to a new adventures that involve his wife… that the focus is on his wife’s pleasure…. not sucking a cock….

Well, with most rationalizations…. it’s pretty obvious that you are rationalizing to make the object you desire at that moment not about what it is about… but what you find acceptable….

You could just say, you want to suck a man’s cock that has been covered in your wife’s juices because it sounds fun to you….

There is nothing wrong with that… and certainly is a turn on for – if all three or four depending on the group dynamics are up for it…

It is one of those things that requires communication just as it does if you are a woman wanting to go down on another woman… you ask… simple as that…

If they say yes… happy diving… if they say no… another person will likely help you out in this…. possibly at another time in the future….

But is there anything wrong with admitting to your spouse on your sexually social adventure that you want to suck a man’s cock that is covered in her juices?

In some marriages, yes. But even if the wife does not want to see that… can you fulfill that fantasy in another way? Yes, you can. Maybe it is  with a hall pass… Or at a party where you and your wife play separately… or maybe your wife agrees after you talk about it… and she says… one time we will try it and see if I can watch that happen…

It is all about communication.

You first have to be willing to ask yourself the tough questions and be honest enough to answer.

Have you always wondered or just started to wonder what it would be like to suck a cock?

Do you enjoy pegging by your wife and at a moment of high enjoyment wonder what it would be like to have a man take your ass?

Or have you wanted to take a man’s ass?

Is there really anything wrong with wondering these things? Asking yourself these questions to see if the answers turn you on or turn you off?

What is wrong with admitting that there are some cocks that you find attractive?

What is wrong with thinking that this is my wife’s fantasy and I want to make sure I can be a part of fulfilling her fantasies?

Or, you know what… this is a sexually social adventure… why not try it at least once… if I like it great… if I don’t… at least I know…

I like to think – and naively I am sure… that the lifestyle should be open to everyone enjoying their sexual kinks how they want… but that doesn’t always happen…

As a lifestyle we (not me, but we collectively) pressure women into being bi-something to get things started and men to stay as far away from bi-anything to ensure they aren’t blacklisted… I wish so much that women who aren’t bi would list themselves as straight and be done with the pretending and the same with the straight listed guys who are bi or curious about bi.

Interestingly enough… in some cases… listing bi-anything males will get all kinds of folks knocking at your ‘profile’ door… and other times listing bi-anything will only draw crickets…. (silence). It makes no sense and it is often the thing that makes you shake your head in wonder…

Personally, I find nothing wrong with a man who is interested in exploring his bi side. Why should a man be penalized for exploring what so many force women to explore? I think a man who is able to explore those things that turn him on is sexy. They are willing to say to everyone… they are not ashamed to be who they are… explore what they want… and you know what a word lover I am… communicate what they like to those they meet… or want to meet.

The openness it takes to share that desire to explore their male bi side is a huge turn on for me. I know the courage it takes. And a courageous man is a sexy man. I know how hard it is to share those feelings and desires… a man who is open and in this particular case – vulnerable in their openness – is sexy to me. To tell me that they would love to be free from the confines the lifestyle places on them… yeah, it breaks my heart… but I think little by little we have an opportunity to let others know it is okay to share that and explore that side of them….

Am I being a naive polly-anna saying that they should take the most public route to announcing their bi-anything-ness…. Nope. I am saying that as we develop a group of core playmates, friends, and lovers we should be able to weed out those who are homophobic from the groups and welcome those who want to explore their bi-ness…

In case you are wondering… I am not saying that every man in the group must be bi-something… but to welcome those who want to explore openly their desires and fantasies without being ostracized for even thinking they would want to explore that side of them. It doesn’t mean that they are ‘at risk’ for being hit on by a guy while playing, but they know that they can if they choose explore that side without ridicule.

I know that to even promote a group however or wherever as guy bi friendly will get you kicked out of contention, but is that necessary to do? No, it isn’t. Sometimes it is enough to promote a group that welcomes everyone without judgment… without ridicule…. without back stabbing…

It will take a weeding out process. One that never stops. One that needs someone strong enough to take the backlash. Someone who will be the voice for the group to promote healthy sexual exploration…

Well, I would love to be that person… to truly encourage others to explore their kinks… their bi side, their straight side… their whatever their adventure is and where it takes them…

I don’t see a problem with a man wanting to explore another man. To suck and be sucked by a man… to fuck and be fucked by a man…

In fact… the very thought of it turns me on… my favorite porn and seriously the only porn I watch anymore is guy/guy porn…

There is something very sexy and masculine about a man who knows what he wants and goes after it… even if it is another man.

Hope you are enjoying your sexually social adventure… no matter how you play….

Sophia

Pretty Little Labels

I ran across this interesting article here. ‘I’m married to a man and I’m a mum. Has my bisexuality expired?’  Is sexuality something you DO or something you ARE?

This is an awesome article because it asks some really good questions that we should ask ourselves…. often…

Is sexuality something you DO or something you ARE?

Anyone got an answer to that question?

I am not sure I do…..

Here is my thought process on this topic…

I love having sex with men. I love having relationships with men. I am married to a man… in a few days it will be married to the same man for 25 years…

I like having sex with CERTAIN women at certain moments but do not seek out those women like I do men.

I am a sexual person.

I love having sex with men and women that are not my spouse.

I would not have a long term relationship with a woman.

Why? Because women are emotional creatures that can be petty and annoying… I say this because I know what I am like and well, I have seen other women… and I am not interested in dealing with that shit…. largely because I enjoy men and their cocks more….

Will this ever change?

I would say its possible because I often change my mind, but a relationship with a woman would be within the context of the ‘sexually social adventure’ I am on rather than ditching old hubby and getting me a woman for all time…

So does that mean I am or am not truly bisexual?

Wikipedia states the following – Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward both males and females,[1][2][3] and may also encompass romantic or sexual attraction to people of any gender identity or to a person irrespective of that person’s biological sex or gender, which is sometimes termed pansexuality.

Well, that is clear and confusing if you really think about it…

It is clear that I enjoy sexual attraction or sexual behavior towards both males and females… Not sure if there is a romantic attraction to another woman… at least not at this time…

So I can express that I am bisexual because of the sexual behavior and attraction to women… and men…

Here is what else wikipedia has to say – A bisexual identity does not necessarily equate to equal sexual attraction to both sexes; commonly, people who have a distinct but not exclusive sexual preference for one sex over the other also identify themselves as bisexual.

Well, that definition sounds like me… well the first part… ‘not necessarily equate to equal sexual attraction to both sexes…’ If I am honest… I receive more pleasure from a good pounding I receive from a man than any of the attempts by women with a dildo…..

I like the ‘manly’ feel of a man… you know.. their hard bodies… the masculine scent, the power and strength a man demonstrates during sex….

Yes, woman are soft and generally smell nice… but there is something about knowing at that moment when a man is pounding me.. his reputation is on the line… whereas a woman is more likely to go for show…

Oops, better go back and explain a few things in that last paragraph…

When I say a man’s reputation is on the line… I am not talking anything petty or silly from a girl’s point of view… more the belief that men have that they must accomplish the goal they have set forth… whether that goal is to bring a woman a certain number of orgasms… cause her to squirt… to hold off cumming until a later point so he can continue more than a few minutes (hey, I have heard that sometimes when a man wants a woman so much, and she is so wet, and so tight, and her pussy is doing amazing things to his cock… it is really hard to hold off)… or if the goal is to cum together… whatever it is… a man’s reputation – even if it is his own reputation in his own mind… there is a totally different mindset in how a man approaches sex than a woman…

Seriously… that is true… very, very true…

I have been with men and women… and I have seen this over and over… whether the women were with other women – including me or with men… and I am not talking one of those small segments of dominatrix women or cockhold husbands… but in general sexual encounters in both vanilla and swinging situations…

There is a difference between the two sexes in how they approach sex.. and well, if we are honest just about anything else in life.

So this brings to mind a question about these pretty little labels like bisexuality and in particular how one defines their bisexuality…

In a general sense, every single person who has had any type of sexual interaction between someone of their sex… is a bisexual. Whether it was a one-time kiss, suck, lick, or penetration… with the someone of the same sex… you have a bisexual label.

However, one does not have to wear the labels as a badge if you don’t want to…. you can keep it quiet and move along with life as it is without a label…

And in the general vanilla world, it is more acceptable to keep those labels to yourself… I mean, who really cares if you kissed a girl or guy depending on your sex… if you don’t want others to know… don’t tell… easy peasy enough… right?

But what do those labels mean when  you are venturing into the world of swinging… where you can make or break your swinging success with such a label…

For a couple or SF… bisexual females are the bees knees… you can do so much with your bisexual label…

To the point where to have a label of bisexual is more important than being honest… to yourself and to others…

I have to ask… all those women out there who are not really bisexual – as in you would be willing to do everything to another woman… and not the bisexual woman who just wants to put on a show…. how many of the woman have you really been attracted too?

How many woman have you wondered about how she tasted… how much she would love you going down on her?

Or how many of those women were more like…. it doesn’t matter who goes down on me… man or woman as long as someone does?

Not really the sentiment I enjoy… unless of course we are at a club and that anonymous – anyone can suffice vibe is what I am craving…

But when you look at sexual attraction as one part of bisexuality… how attracted are you to the other woman or man (depending on your sex)… how interested in them are you rather than interested in using the bisexual activities as your ‘getting the party started’ tool?

I don’t know, but I seem to have a sensor in me that detects those who want to use girl/girl play to get the party started and those who are really interested in me… as a woman they as a woman wants to have sexual ‘relations’ with…

Maybe I am a bit jaded… who knows? Could very well be…. but there is something that turns me on, wets my panties, and all that good stuff when I know a guy really wants me… as in he will turn out all the stops to get my attention, keep my attention, and let me know how much he wants me…

Can’t tell you the last time a woman did that for real not show… Actually, I can tell you the names and dates of those occasions and those times were awesome… but the point was… it is not as often as one would think…

To me, sex is more than just a show. It is an opportunity to express my desire for the other person. To release the desire I have for them and to match their desire for me…

How do you do that when you don’t really have much more than a ‘show’ to present?

Kinda thinking this sexually social adventure should be ‘somewhat’ authentic… don’t you?

Sophia

When Two Men Find Pleasure – A Woman’s Story – Part Three

From the last part of the story….

I walk from the chair to a bag we have… a bag of toys… a bag of ‘supplies’ and I start pulling items out of the bag and place them on the bed and on the night stands… I let the guys watch for a moment or two what I am doing… then I take a peek at them… their eyes are following my actions… looking at the objects I brought out… moans slip from both of them… a look of desire… acute desire is written over their faces… they want what I brought out and they want it now….

I had the biggest smile on my face… I was going to have a great deal of fun tonight… as if I hadn’t already enjoyed myself to the point of dehydration… but this night was about all of us having more fun exploring what we wanted and looking at these men… I knew they wanted… and wanted a lot…

I grab a bottle a lube and placed some on both hands… I told the men in my most dominate and sexy voice possible to lay on their sides facing each other… they happily complied… I began by grabbing those nice ass cheeks… now it was difficult to make sure I was doing the same to both… hell who am I kidding… it was difficult holding myself back.. I wanted to jump ahead of the game and do it all and quickly, my attention was all over the place.. I closed my eyes and took a deep breath… all the while moving my hands over their ass cheeks… closer and closer to their creases. My goodness were their asses hot… nice firm asses… I am now sitting between them near their thighs… their hard cocks were right in front of me… I could see their excitement and I could smell their arousal.. holy fuck was I turned on…

Chase reached out and took Jack’s cock into his hand and began stroking the length. Jack returned the favor to Chase as I began circling their holes. Both men moved their legs to allow me more access and I swear to all that is good in the world I was nearly coming apart at the seams…

I add more lube on my fingers and begin pressing into them… I see and hear them taking a deep breath of pleasure at the same time… One finger from each hand is inside the men… pressing forward… pulling back… moving in a steady rhythm as the men stoke each other’s cocks and pull on their balls. I slide my fingers out and add more lube as I slide two fingers into each of them..

Both men let a moan escape and I begin to speed up my movements inside them… My pussy is dripping wet making a mess on the two butt plugs I have between my legs.. It is good lube I guess… I add some lube to one plug and insert it into Chase’s ass. I hear his deep rumbling moan… I see his eyes light up with desire… and I am so eager to move on to Jack… to build his desire too, if it is even possible to do at this time…

Jack moves on his hands and knees allowing me great access to his ass… I put the butt plug down and decide to take a different approach… While on his hands and legs, Jack positions himself over Chase’s cock and begins sucking it hard and fast.. I insert a toy in me that will allow me to peg Jack’s desirable ass. I turn on the vibrator and we both enjoy the sensations as I set the dildo to the edge of his hole… slowly I breach the opening and I am sliding deep inside him. I grab onto Jack’s hips to keep my balance and begin to pound out a steady rhythm in his ass.

Jack still sucking on Chase’s cock pulls the butt plug from his ass and inserts his fingers in its stead. Chase and Jack are loudly announcing their mutual pleasure. I am in absolute heaven and it looks like Chase is feeling the same.

Jack removes his fingers from Chase’s ass and begins to look around the room… I anticipate what he is needing and pull a condom from under the pillow. Amazingly, little change in the pegging happens and I continue to fuck Jack while he places a condom on his straining cock.

Jack moves Chase a bit to straighten him out in front of him and lifts his legs up to bring his ass in full view. Chase happily helps get in position and whispers out ‘holy fuck’ as Jack slides into his ass.

I sit back and think of the first time I had sex and the thrill of having my first… My first bit of oral sex done on me… my first bit of oral sex done on someone else… male and female.. I remember the first cock sliding in for the very first time… I remember how incredible it felt among the discomfort that also happened… nothing beats the first time no matter what that first time is…

I see all of that on Chase’s face. It was a slide show of all his experiences to date… and this one, it was a beautiful experience of pleasure and yes.. no matter how much lube and preparation you do… a bit of pain.

I do believe Jack’s cock is larger than the dildo Chase and I usually use. Jack lets out a sigh of satisfaction. I can tell he is enjoying my husband’s ass. Feeling the tightness as he slides all the way in Chase’s ass. Feeling the loss of the tightness when he pulls out.

I slide out of Jack’s ass at this point so I can stand back and watch Jack fucking my husband. Oh how I have wanted to see this and say that for so long. I wanted to see another man fuck my husband’s ass. To see the pleasure of the moment. The freedom of inhibitions as they just enjoy themselves. I mean seriously enjoy the freedom and the sensations….

Oh how fucking wet am I right now watching. It is incredible hearing their skin slapping against each other. Jack’s groans from his efforts and Chase’s moans receiving the hard thrusts…

There is a part of me that is so jealous. I want so much to see this happen every night. I want more of this and the night has really just begun.

Jack pulls out of Chase. He bends down and gives Chase’s cock a few hard sucks and then tells me to ride Chase. I eagerly head over to my husband as Jack heads to the bathroom. I hear water running as I slide down Chase’s hard shaft… impaling my pussy… my breasts in Chase’s mouth and hands…

Jack enters the room again, grabs another condom from under the pillow… slathers some lube on his fingers and moves behind me… OMG, my pussy is clenching in anticipation. Jack’s fingers are rimming my ass… one softly enters my ass and I buck back on his finger…. Jack laughs and asks if I need a lot of encouragement.. humor lacing his voice.

I let out a moan of disappointment when he removes his finger… but that moan was quickly replaced when I felt his very hard cock enter my ass…

Oh, let the fun times begin…..

Hope you are enjoying this little adventure… I promise I was going to write about something else… But I really need to see where this ends up… Enjoy!

Sophia

P.S. Sorry about spelling and grammar mistakes… but I am so fucking horny right now… gotta take care of it instead of proofing this post… LOL I’ll edit later.

When Two Men Find Pleasure – A Woman’s Story – Part One and Part Two

This story was in a previous post. I was asked to make it a solo post and add to the post by several folks. And it was a good mix of male and females asking for more of this story…

Here is the original part….

I have a secret turn on that is not really that secret for me…..I am a bisexual woman and no that is not the secret….I love watching bisexual threesomes and guy/guy porn…..And for the record…the bisexual threesomes are MMF….Here is a story of stemming from this fantasy of mine…..

Sophia and Chase were headed to their local swinger club….it was Saturday night and they had a hotel room for the after party play and they were really hoping to have some fun at the club and after….Their expectations were to find one or more people to play with while keeping their adventures wide open. For Sophia, this is the way she has to do her adventure….keeping her mind open and enjoy come what may….

The music was thumping to some great dance tunes and she felt herself dancing in her chair….Chase had gone to get a drink and while he was gone a very hot man approached her….his approach was respectful and a bit timid with an odd mix of confidence….yes, a contradiction, but that is what made this man so appealing…he was beyond what one would expect….and that really accounted for much of his hotness….yes, hotness is not just looks but a combination of looks and personality…confident but not expecting….sweet but not shy….forward but respectful….smiling like he knows how to please, but willing to be told how to please the lady in his life….for that moment….

He asks if he can wait here while ‘my man’ gets a drink….I nod yes with a smile….He introduces himself as Jack and asks politely my name….Sophia I tell him and my man is Chase….He looks over at Chase who noticed his approach to our table and nods to him. Chase nods back with a smile and all is good….

He shares that he is a single male and would love to spend time tonight getting to know both me and Chase…..that last bit said with a smile….I figure I might as well ask him what I really want to know….with a smile I ask, “How well would you like to get to know Chase?”

Not a heartbeat passes without him responding, “I am bi, I would love to get to know both of you very intimately.”

That simply turned me on instantly and I was wet, hot, and needing to let him know this….but before I could he whispers to me “If you get that excited by what I said, then wait until I take his cock into my mouth and bring him such great pleasure.”

This was a first….a single man is turning me on by telling me how he wants to suck my man’s cock…..and please… he can’t stop telling me what he wants to do to both of us…..my pussy was throbbing at this time and it was needing some release….I moved a bit on my seat to get some relief down there….and Jack laughed, his dimples showing and that damn sexy voice….whispers…”I would love to bring you some much needed release”.

I couldn’t help it….I let out a moan-sigh and closed my eyes picturing him bringing me and my man release and my legs started to twitch in response to my pressure I was placing on my clit….Jack chuckled and moved close to my ear “What do you say we invite Chase into this party and move to a place a bit more quiet to get to know each other?”

I opened my eyes and Chase was back at the table with a smile on his face, he placed the drinks down and shook Jack’s hand….Chase whispered near my ear….”Are you turned on right now Sophia?”

“Oh yes I am….Jack here wants to get to know us intimately….me and you both…as in he wants to suck your cock”……

Jack has a killer grin on his face and no apology whatsoever is seen in his face or heard in his voice….”Yes, Sophia that is right, I find you both hot and would love to see what happens.”

I am amazed that he has no fear that Chase is a straight man who ‘fears’ a bi guy indicating he is hot and attracted to him or that he wouldn’t haul off and slug him……..of course, I know that Chase has never been with a man before, but he has always said if the right person came along at the right time he would be up for exploring this side of our adventure…..can it really be tonight and with Jack that this happens….I can only hope….but how did Jack know to approach us with this, tonight?

The music is still thumping and one song after another plays that I swear are my favorites….I grab Jack’s hand and ask him to dance with me….He smiles and takes me out on the dance floor….we are dancing and laughing and it feels so damn good….a slow song starts and Jack pulls me into his arms as we dance much slower and then he kisses me…..

His kisses are incredible….and as much as I don’t want to have the kiss stop, it does….he places kisses across my cheek until he reaches my ear…He says in that damn sexy voice of his that he really would love to get somewhere a bit quieter so we can all talk and get to know each other but has to wonder if Chase will be upset if he flirts with him in a public space like this….as it would not do good to have him upset if others see a guy touching him in any way…

I couldn’t express how much his consideration for Chase’s feelings meant to me…at least verbally, so I kissed him and kissed him good. I let him know that I was very attracted to him in many ways and with that kiss I felt my panties soak, my pussy quiver, and my nipples tighten….I needed this man to take me right now and I told him so……..

“You need to come back to our hotel room right now…I need you in so many ways tonight….we will start out with heading to the room and see what happens from there….and so much better happen…I don’t think I have wanted someone so soon after meeting them as I have you.”

Jack laughed and then closed his mouth over mine and kissed me into oblivion……I swear I was having an incredible orgasm from kissing and dancing with him….of course his leg had been between mine and I was riding it hard, hitting my clit in the most perfect manner…I shattered during that kiss and left a huge wet spot all over his leg…I was too far gone to care….and he didn’t seem to care one bit…in fact, he seemed rather proud of what just happened.

I can barely walk to Chase and our table after what happened. I hold onto Jack’s arm until we arrived. I look up at Chase and tell him that we are going to the hotel room right now and fucking this man until none of us can walk, think, or breath anymore……

My plan was to make sure we all had some time to talk and get to know each other before the actual sex started….and you know what they say about the best laid plans………..well…..

Chase opens the hotel room and enters first followed by me and then Jack. My heart was racing, my breasts were full from desire, and my pussy was wet and quivering…. and the possibility of seeing my husband with another man….

My heart and my brain competed with each other at this moment… I am so turned on by men having sex together and this was a dream come true. I needed to take a moment to gather my thoughts and I was preparing to head to the bathroom…. before I did… I needed to say something to ‘my men’…

“This is a dream come true for me… but only if you both truly want each other as much I want both of you…. this has to be more for you than doing it for me… I want your passion unleashed because it is your passion for each other… not for a show for me…”

With that, I gathered a little bag and headed off to the bathroom with a kiss.

Once in the bathroom I took a deep cleansing breath…. I needed to find that heart rate that was somewhere between turned on yet calm enough to focus on the moment… it was taking some time to find that spot because I was so damn turned on by what was about to happen…. what seemed like hours was only a few minutes before I was ready to join my men….

I was not expecting what I saw when I entered the bedroom, but I was so very happy by what I saw… one small light was left on, otherwise the room was dimmer… just the hint of light and shadows increasing the beauty of what was before me…

Jack, standing behind Chase had his hands circling towards his chest unbuttoning Chase’s shirt… each button was slowly pushed out of the button hole and I could tell Chase was turned on by this slow and seductive act. I remained just outside the bathroom door transfixed by what I was observing….

As Jack pushed another button out of its hole, he kissed the back of Chase’s neck. He moved the shirt further open and moved down to the next button in a slow and sensual manner… I could hear Chase’s breathing increase in passion with each kissed placed and each button opened….

Finally, Jack released the last button and he slowly slid the shirt off Chase’s shoulders and back… what a glorious sight that was to behold… I noticed Chase holding his breath as Jack slowly moved his hands down Chase’s arms along with the shirt. Jack then brought his hands slowly up Chase’s back, exploring each inch of his body at the same time.

My nipples were so hard, to the point of being sore from want, Jack’s, Chase’s and mine. There was nothing I wanted more right now than to cum and damn, it appeared I was about ready… I clenched those muscles together and released and clenched and released a few more times… I held onto the door frame for support as I quietly came hard from what I witnessed.

Chase was still facing away from Jack, his cock straining from behind his jeans… It looked painful in the position it was in… but it was a sign that all was good, that Jack was the right man to introduce Chase to passions he has felt were not possible… as he is not attracted to men….but then again, maybe he was only attracted to this one man…. his body seemed to be reacting to all of Jack’s kisses and touches… his nipple hard, his cock painfully large and straining with a wet spot forming on his pants, his breathing hard and fast, but it was his hands that told me how much he wanted Jack….

His hands had found their way behind his back. Chase was touching Jack where ever he could… as if he needed to feel for himself that Jack was bringing him these pleasurable moments… bringing him fulfillment as no other man has.

Jack reached around and stroked Chase’s cock and I swore the cock jumped in response…Chase let out a moan of pure pleasure from this simple act. Jack cupped his fingers around the outline of the cock and grabbed a hold of it the best he could, placing pressure on the beautiful and straining organ.

I couldn’t see if Jack was as hard as Chase was because he was tight up against Chase’s backside. My assumption held that he was as he began to move his hips in a steady rhythm against Chase….

Jack’s other hand came to the front of Chase’s jeans and began to unbutton. I held my breath in anticipation…. and it appears so did Chase. He wanted this as much as I did…. Tears began to form in my eyes to see my man wanting this pleasure as much as I… his passion building for this man as did mine. We could finally share a man in every sense of the word…. suck his cock together… explore his body… take him as he could take us….

Jack was now slowly unzipping Chase’s jeans and a groan of pleasure came from both men at the same time… how on earth could this be any hotter for me… I could feel my need building up again… demanding release right now…. I began circling my clit with my finger… watching the men enjoying themselves and a thought came to my head… did they even know I was watching… not one of them had looked over at me or given me any other bit of acknowledgement…. My legs were growing shaky and I slowly inched my way down to the floor as to not interrupt them… luckily my view was still unobstructed…. I got comfortable as I sat on the floor… my legs spread, my hips tilted in the best position to bring myself to an orgasm… my eyes fixed on the guys… but my finger finding the source of my personal pleasure….

Now that Jack had Chase’s jeans opened… he slid them down to the floor…. still behind Chase, he chuckled as he noticed Chase’s choice of undergarment…. None… He was without any other fabric under his jeans so his cock was standing straight out in anticipation of what was to cum….

Jack worked himself back up Chase’s body by kissing his legs, thighs, and his ass…. oh did he kiss Chase’s ass… first one cheek and then the other… every inch of his sexy as was explored… from the outside in… he worked and worked his way to the center… to the crease… to where his hole was… first Jack used his finger to explore that crease until it was necessary to use both hands to open the crease up enough to use his tongue to continue his exploration….

Chase was alternating between holding his breath and breathing out moans of pleasure… I knew the exact moment when Jack’s tongue reached his the part of his ass that was most sensitive… that craved his tongue… and Jack did not disappoint…. Chase screamed out “FUCK YES!” and grabbed his cock, stroking the weeping organ hard and fast…. Jack’s face was buried in Chase’s crease and pleasure was the only expression on his face….

I was not immune to the pleasure the men were giving and receiving… My clit was swollen and sensitive and to the point where I was going to explore…. I tried so hard to remain quiet, but I couldn’t… I was cumming so hard from what they were doing and let out my own moans of pleasure….instead of disturbing them.. it increased their pleasure….

After the most amazing orgasms of my life watching the men… I slumped against the wall. Chase was watching my reaction and I could tell he was turned on by how my body was responding to their pleasure. I was torn between staying back and watching and joining in with the two men.

My question of what to do was answered when Chase told me to come to him. I walked over on shaking legs. I stood in front of them both and with my on Chase’s cock began kissing Jack. Knowing both of these men were turned on by these events made me even wetter… Chase had his thumb on my clit and was slowly rubbing it back and forth and around and around. My legs were weakening even more than they were…

Jack’s mouth brought me great pleasure… man could he kiss… He reached around Chase and found my breast and more importantly my nipple. My poor nipple was so hard and so eager for the sensations Jack was giving me…

Jack’s cock was straining again Chase’s ass and he began flexing his hips to bring some friction between the two of them…

While I loved what we were doing… my legs were so soft from the pleasure I needed to have these men in a very different position…. I broke the kiss with Jack… and turned slowly and began walking towards the bed… My hand was still on Chase’s cock… but sadly his hands were no longer pleasing my clit and pussy. The men dutifully followed me to the bed….

When we finally made the few feet to the bed… I pushed Chase down and crawled up his body until I could straddle his delectable mouth… he moaned and wrapped his arms around my hips… his tongue beginning to tease my clit… his hands gripping my ass…. fingers exploring my opening… I can’t help myself and let out a moan that left no question about how turned on I was and how much I needed this night…

I look behind me and Jack is taking Chase’s cock into his mouth… savoring the entire shaft… his hands are tugging lightly on Chase’s balls… his mouth now taking the full length of Chase’s cock in… his eyes alight with satisfaction…

My neck is straining to watch all the action happening behind me… I pull my pussy away from Chase’s mouth and change my position… back on Chase’s mouth so I can watch… Chase laughs and knows just how much I need to see… he can feel the juices flowing from me just from the excitement.

Jack smiles while sucking cock and moves himself a bit more on the bed… in perfect location of my hands so I can stroke his incredible cock… which of course I do… gladly… I have my hand on his cock and lean down so Jack and I can both take turns sucking on the cock… I am nearly cumming…. I am holding back and Chase tells me to release… no waiting… I swear to all that is good that my listened to him and I unleashed my fount of pleasure straight in Chase’s mouth… his mouth wide open and so very eager to taste all of me….

I am exhausted from all my pleasure and roll off the bed to get a drink and to clean up a bit… when I return… Chase and Jack are on the bed… 69 style enjoying each other’s cocks… fingers gripping asses… fingers exploring the crease… fingers exploring openings.. gently at first… with more desire building… I am sitting in a chair off to the side just watching the sexual beauty of this moment… I had visions of what this would be like, but never did I think it was going to be this hot…

Chase is about to cum… I can tell… he moves away from Jack’s mouth… he needs a break for a while… he wants to wait as long as he can… he wants to be brought to the edge but deny himself the pleasure for now… but he is still enjoying the beauty of Jack’s cock…

Jack is thrusting his hips into Chase’s mouth and I cannot even begin to describe how hot that is… love seeing his mouth being fucked… Jack pulls his cock out of Chase’s mouth and begins to rub his cock across Chase’s balls… between his legs… in and out… mimicking what I know will happen shortly…

I walk from the chair to a bag we have… a bag of toys… a bag of ‘supplies’ and I start pulling items out of the bag and place them on the bed and on the night stands… I let the guys watch for a moment or two what I am doing… then I take a peek at them… their eyes are following my actions… looking at the objects I brought out… moans slip from both of them… a look of desire… acute desire is written over their faces… they want what I brought out and they want it now….

Hope you like  your sexually social adventure and all the doors it can open as much as I do….

Sophia

Understanding Double Standards… part four

We all know that many in the lifestyle think that nearly all women who swing are doing it for their bisexual desires to come out and play. And for many, they do enjoy the fun of playing with other women.

The double standard I am talking about today is about bisexual play of men.

This is where if you cannot stand to think about men enjoying bisexual play you may want to leave the blog post.

I am serious. So many men have a fear of reading about bisexual play because they are so fucking straight….

And yet, I cannot tell you how many men declare their straighthood to the public (swinging public in particular) but will when probing a little deeper – pun intended… they state that they like ass play… as if by admitting that they will somehow appear less manly.

OMG!

Seriously… OMG! How can you say that with a serious face. I know when you tell me this on chat, forums, text, or however you let me know… I Fucking Laugh Hard.

Why?

Because it is usually said in some version of this…. I am straight, but I do like to have a woman and only a woman play with my ass.

As if grabbing a man’s ass cheeks will make them gay.

As if running a finger around his ass with make him gay.

As if inserting a finger in his ass will make him gay.

As if inserting a toy in his ass will make him gay.

As if fucking (pegging) his ass will make him gay.

And if all those things makes him wonder what it would be like if a man does it to him….

It does not make him gay.

He has sex with women, the proper label is bi-sexual. Actually at that point he may be bi-curious.

But even if he does decide he wants to play with men while he is swinging with his spouse… why is that a problem… a woman being buried deep in another woman’s pussy is not a horrible thing… rather it is a highly sought after experience for some… but a man getting turned on by another man sucking his cock… shame… shame… shame…

AS IF.

I will tell you right now… if my hubby decided that he wanted to be fucked by a man I would be the first one in line to set it up. I admit right now that the best porn for me to get off on when I need to get off so I can get on with my day is gay porn. It used to be bi-sexual porn (MMF) but the damn girls in the porn always look at the camera and act all stupid looking and it annoys me… I would rather just go straight towards the gay porn and get the thrill I need and the eye candy you cannot believe.

I have no problem with men in the swinging world exploring all they want to explore. If that means that the guy begins sucking the other guys cock… OMG just writing that and imagining that has my pussy soaked… no lie.

I think the thrill of a sexually social adventure is to try the things you may want to try and do what you always wanted to try.

To me a man is a helluva lot more sexy to me if he is willing to explore his bi side if that is something he wants to try. He is very strong, masculine, and sexy to me to know that he is not afraid to find the pleasure he seeks. Just like that which is open to women in the lifestyle.

Why?

Because there is nothing wrong with exploring what you need or want from this adventure.

You must be honest with yourself or you will remain unfulfilled in the adventure you are on… I am serious. You want to suck a man’s cock and you do nothing to get yourself in a situation where that type of play would be allowed, you go along feeling like you are left out of the true adventure you are venturing. Why is it okay for a woman to explore her bi side and not a man.

Now, I am not saying that every man will want to explore his bi-side. Often I find that the most vocal about the bisexuality of men and how that is not the thing they would ever consider…

Well, I will leave that unsaid for now…

I cannot tell you how many guys who after talking about having their ass played with and even being pegged by their wife… and most do not want that said out loud as if their wife pegging them is something to be ashamed of…

But I have had a number of men tell me that if the mood was right, the connection there, and the passion of the adventure led to him sucking the other guy’s cock… he may be willing to do that…

I say… what is holding  you back…

Now, I am not talking about going up to a couple that has everything in their profile stating and hinting that if a guy were to take his cock and suck it the sucked not the suckee would likely be in jail for attempted murder….

What I am talking about… is a couple where the guy has posted that he is open to or bisexual and you discuss that you may want to explore that… and then when the cock presents itself… I say go ahead and suck to your hearts content…

Again, my pussy is quivering hard right now…

But why should we allow women to have all the bisexual fun?

Here is a post I wrote a while ago… It is not completed…It was never put out on the blog yet, as I was waiting for the right time… but I love this one… a lot… and folks, just so you know… it is a work of fiction or we could say a fantasy of mine I would love to see play out….

When Two Men Find Pleasure – A Woman’s Story

I have a secret turn on that is not really that secret for me…..I am a bisexual woman and no that is not the secret….I love watching bisexual threesomes and guy/guy porn…..And for the record…the bisexual threesomes are MMF….Here is a story of stemming from this fantasy of mine…..

Sophia and Chase were headed to their local swinger club….it was Saturday night and they had a hotel room for the after party play and they were really hoping to have some fun at the club and after….Their expectations were to find one or more people to play with while keeping their adventures wide open. For Sophia, this is the way she has to do her adventure….keeping her mind open and enjoy come what may….

The music was thumping to some great dance tunes and she felt herself dancing in her chair….Chase had gone to get a drink and while he was gone a very hot man approached her….his approach was respectful and a bit timid with an odd mix of confidence….yes, a contradiction, but that is what made this man so appealing…he was beyond what one would expect….and that really accounted for much of his hotness….yes, hotness is not just looks but a combination of looks and personality…confident but not expecting….sweet but not shy….forward but respectful….smiling like he knows how to please, but willing to be told how to please the lady in his life….for that moment….

He asks if he can wait here while ‘my man’ gets a drink….I nod yes with a smile….He introduces himself as Jack and asks politely my name….Sophia I tell him and my man is Chase….He looks over at Chase who noticed his approach to our table and nods to him. Chase nods back with a smile and all is good….

He shares that he is a single male and would love to spend time tonight getting to know both me and Chase…..that last bit said with a smile….I figure I might as well ask him what I really want to know….with a smile I ask, “How well would you like to get to know Chase?”

Not a heartbeat passes without him responding, “I am bi, I would love to get to know both of you very intimately.”

That simply turned me on instantly and I was wet, hot, and needing to let him know this….but before I could he whispers to me “If you get that excited by what I said, then wait until I take his cock into my mouth and bring him such great pleasure.”

This was a first….a single man is turning me on by telling me how he wants to suck my man’s cock…..and please… he can’t stop telling me what he wants to do to both of us…..my pussy was throbbing at this time and it was needing some release….I moved a bit on my seat to get some relief down there….and Jack laughed, his dimples showing and that damn sexy voice….whispers…”I would love to bring you some much needed release”.

I couldn’t help it….I let out a moan-sigh and closed my eyes picturing him bringing me and my man release and my legs started to twitch in response to my pressure I was placing on my clit….Jack chuckled and moved close to my ear “What do you say we invite Chase into this party and move to a place a bit more quiet to get to know each other?”

I opened my eyes and Chase was back at the table with a smile on his face, he placed the drinks down and shook Jack’s hand….Chase whispered near my ear….”Are you turned on right now Sophia?”

“Oh yes I am….Jack here wants to get to know us intimately….me and you both…as in he wants to suck your cock”……

Jack has a killer grin on his face and no apology whatsoever is seen in his face or heard in his voice….”Yes, Sophia that is right, I find you both hot and would love to see what happens.”

I am amazed that he has no fear that Chase is a straight man who ‘fears’ a bi guy indicating he is hot and attracted to him or that he wouldn’t haul off and slug him……..of course, I know that Chase has never been with a man before, but he has always said if the right person came along at the right time he would be up for exploring this side of our adventure…..can it really be tonight and with Jack that this happens….I can only hope….but how did Jack know to approach us with this, tonight?

The music is still thumping and one song after another plays that I swear are my favorites….I grab Jack’s hand and ask him to dance with me….He smiles and takes me out on the dance floor….we are dancing and laughing and it feels so damn good….a slow song starts and Jack pulls me into his arms as we dance much slower and then he kisses me…..

His kisses are incredible….and as much as I don’t want to have the kiss stop, it does….he places kisses across my cheek until he reaches my ear…He says in that damn sexy voice of his that he really would love to get somewhere a bit quieter so we can all talk and get to know each other but has to wonder if Chase will be upset if he flirts with him in a public space like this….as it would not do good to have him upset if others see a guy touching him in any way…

I couldn’t express how much his consideration for Chase’s feelings meant to me…at least verbally, so I kissed him and kissed him good. I let him know that I was very attracted to him in many ways and with that kiss I felt my panties soak, my pussy quiver, and my nipples tighten….I needed this man to take me right now and I told him so……..

“You need to come back to our hotel room right now…I need you in so many ways tonight….we will start out with heading to the room and see what happens from there….and so much better happen…I don’t think I have wanted someone so soon after meeting them as I have you.”

Jack laughed and then closed his mouth over mine and kissed me into oblivion……I swear I was having an incredible orgasm from kissing and dancing with him….of course his leg had been between mine and I was riding it hard, hitting my clit in the most perfect manner…I shattered during that kiss and left a huge wet spot all over his leg…I was too far gone to care….and he didn’t seem to care one bit…in fact, he seemed rather proud of what just happened.

I can barely walk to Chase and our table after what happened. I hold onto Jack’s arm until we arrived. I look up at Chase and tell him that we are going to the hotel room right now and fucking this man until none of us can walk, think, or breath anymore……

My plan was to make sure we all had some time to talk and get to know each other before the actual sex started….and you know what they say about the best laid plans………..well…..

Chase opens the hotel room and enters first followed by me and then Jack. My heart was racing, my breasts were full from desire, and my pussy was wet and quivering…. and the possibility of seeing my husband with another man….

My heart and my brain competed with each other at this moment… I am so turned on by men having sex together and this was a dream come true. I needed to take a moment to gather my thoughts and I was preparing to head to the bathroom…. before I did… I needed to say something to ‘my men’…

“This is a dream come true for me… but only if you both truly want each other as much I want both of you…. this has to be more for you than doing it for me… I want your passion unleashed because it is your passion for each other… not for a show for me…”

With that, I gathered a little bag and headed off to the bathroom with a kiss.

Once in the bathroom I took a deep cleansing breath…. I needed to find that heart rate that was somewhere between turned on yet calm enough to focus on the moment… it was taking some time to find that spot because I was so damn turned on by what was about to happen…. what seemed like hours was only a few minutes before I was ready to join my men….

I was not expecting what I saw when I entered the bedroom, but I was so very happy by what I saw… one small light was left on, otherwise the room was dimmer… just the hint of light and shadows increasing the beauty of what was before me…

Jack, standing behind Chase had his hands circling towards his chest unbuttoning Chase’s shirt… each button was slowly pushed out of the button hole and I could tell Chase was turned on by this slow and seductive act. I remained just outside the bathroom door transfixed by what I was observing….

As Jack pushed another button out of its hole, he kissed the back of Chase’s neck. He moved the shirt further open and moved down to the next button in a slow and sensual manner… I could hear Chase’s breathing increase in passion with each kissed placed and each button opened….

Finally, Jack released the last button and he slowly slid the shirt off Chase’s shoulders and back… what a glorious sight that was to behold… I noticed Chase holding his breath as Jack slowly moved his hands down Chase’s arms along with the shirt. Jack then brought his hands slowly up Chase’s back, exploring each inch of his body at the same time.

My nipples were so hard, to the point of being sore from want, Jack’s, Chase’s and mine. There was nothing I wanted more right now than to cum and damn, it appeared I was about ready… I clenched those muscles together and released and clenched and released a few more times… I held onto the door frame for support as I quietly came hard from what I witnessed.

Chase was still facing away from Jack, his cock straining from behind his jeans… It looked painful in the position it was in… but it was a sign that all was good, that Jack was the right man to introduce Chase to passions he has felt were not possible… as he is not attracted to men….but then again, maybe he was only attracted to this one man…. his body seemed to be reacting to all of Jack’s kisses and touches… his nipple hard, his cock painfully large and straining with a wet spot forming on his pants, his breathing hard and fast, but it was his hands that told me how much he wanted Jack….

His hands had found their way behind his back. Chase was touching Jack where ever he could… as if he needed to feel for himself that Jack was bringing him these pleasurable moments… bringing him fulfillment as no other man has.

Jack reached around and stroked Chase’s cock and I swore the cock jumped in response…Chase let out a moan of pure pleasure from this simple act. Jack cupped his fingers around the outline of the cock and grabbed a hold of it the best he could, placing pressure on the beautiful and straining organ.

I couldn’t see if Jack was as hard as Chase was because he was tight up against Chase’s backside. My assumption held that he was as he began to move his hips in a steady rhythm against Chase….

Jack’s other hand came to the front of Chase’s jeans and began to unbutton. I held my breath in anticipation…. and it appears so did Chase. He wanted this as much as I did…. Tears began to form in my eyes to see my man wanting this pleasure as much as I… his passion building for this man as did mine. We could finally share a man in every sense of the word…. suck his cock together… explore his body… take him as he could take us….

Jack was now slowly unzipping Chase’s jeans and a groan of pleasure came from both men at the same time… how on earth could this be any hotter for me… I could feel my need building up again… demanding release right now…. I began circling my clit with my finger… watching the men enjoying themselves and a thought came to my head… did they even know I was watching… not one of them had looked over at me or given me any other bit of acknowledgement…. My legs were growing shaky and I slowly inched my way down to the floor as to not interrupt them… luckily my view was still unobstructed…. I got comfortable as I sat on the floor… my legs spread, my hips tilted in the best position to bring myself to an orgasm… my eyes fixed on the guys… but my finger finding the source of my personal pleasure….

Now that Jack had Chase’s jeans opened… he slid them down to the floor…. still behind Chase, he chuckled as he noticed Chase’s choice of undergarment…. None… He was without any other fabric under his jeans so his cock was standing straight out in anticipation of what was to cum….

Jack worked himself back up Chase’s body by kissing his legs, thighs, and his ass…. oh did he kiss Chase’s ass… first one cheek and then the other… every inch of his sexy as was explored… from the outside in… he worked and worked his way to the center… to the crease… to where his hole was… first Jack used his finger to explore that crease until it was necessary to use both hands to open the crease up enough to use his tongue to continue his exploration….

Chase was alternating between holding his breath and breathing out moans of pleasure… I knew the exact moment when Jack’s tongue reached his the part of his ass that was most sensitive… that craved his tongue… and Jack did not disappoint…. Chase screamed out “FUCK YES!” and grabbed his cock, stroking the weeping organ hard and fast…. Jack’s face was buried in Chase’s crease and pleasure was the only expression on his face….

I was not immune to the pleasure the men were giving and receiving… My clit was swollen and sensitive and to the point where I was going to explore…. I tried so hard to remain quiet, but I couldn’t… I was cumming so hard from what they were doing and let out my own moans of pleasure….instead of disturbing them.. it increased their pleasure….

Hope you are enjoying your sexually social adventure

Sophia

Understanding Double Standards… part two…

The understanding of double standards is difficult, because even if you understand them you may not be able to change them…

Well, ain’t that a defeatist attitude.. did not mean for it to sound defeatist… but if you understand the double standard and allow the double standard to continue… you have defeated yourself and those you hope will change the double standard….

I have taken a stand a number of times.. on a number of these double standards but not by getting up on a soap box and screaming my opinion to others… sometimes I have taken approaches that are subtle… direct… and humorous… and yes, I have even resorted to blogging about some of these things..

I have been told that I have managed to say in words what they felt. I have addressed issues they didn’t realize they had… I have had people agree wholeheartedly with some of what I wrote…

I have had people stop talking to me or having anything to do with me because I wrote about a particular issue when I addressed it with them first and they ignored me or got pissed I had the audacity to disagree with what they did or said to me…

The double standard I mentioned yesterday – women thinking that just because they have tits and pussy that is all they have to do to get another woman to play with them….

Oddly enough… I had a conversation about this – brought up first by the other person and they hadn’t read my blog – how do I know that???? I had finished it up while talking to this person… wasn’t sure she even knew of my blog.  She mentioned that she was sick of the male half flirting with her and nothing from the female half but when it was time to play she was expected to play with the female.

She was like… WTF? Just how was I supposed to get all excited about the female half if there was no connection. I told her I know exactly what you are talking about…seriously…

I told her that I needed to have some type of indication that the person likes me… maybe not for months, weeks, days… but at least when we are together would love to know the person wants me…

She asked why women don’t actually flirt with each other…

I have no idea… She had no idea… but she asked me what I do about it… how do I let them know…

I told that I refuse to play. We may touch hands or maybe stroke a nipple while playing… but a woman who really wants to play with me will let me know just as I will let her know… if it doesn’t happen… then it won’t happen.

She then asked the best question possible…

Why do women take for granted that everyone will want them male or female…

The reason I believe… is ego based. Everyone wants to believe they are all that… and in the lifestyle this is about as bad as it gets. I am being honest here… so many women believe that they are all that… they have their spouses building them up as the most beautiful and sexy woman who ever walked the earth. But they are only ‘attractive’. They are not sexy because they wear lingerie. They do not make themselves approachable and so no one finds them as sexy as they think.

They cannot rely solely on their spouses opinion. They have to make an honest attempt to engage with others… They have to want to get to know others… they have to want  to find out about others…

The women who have the most fun on their adventure are the ones who engage both males and females. They are the ones that work up the nerve to talk to you and really engage you as a response to your engagement efforts on them….

I am more than likely to engage more people on the date or at a party or club than most. There have been dates where if I did not speak, there would be absolute silence.

I look for exit signs to run and run fast… I am not going to enjoy playing with someone who cannot make the effort to engage me…

Now, I know that I am not everyone’s cup of tea… believe me I have no problem with that… I am hoping often that I won’t be so I don’t have to be the one who says NO WAY! I give them outs…. we are sitting there and the person decides I am going to put my moves on her and there was no hint that they want to… I suddenly have to go to the bathroom and then when I get back… I regroup and find an excuse to leave….

You have to do some prep work to let me know you want me when you meet me or it is not going to happen…

For men or women…

You want me to play with you… you have to let me know… When I flirt with you.. you have to respond… if I am not flirting with you because you have given off the cold and aloof vibe… then you will have to let me know you are interested… but you know what… in all honesty… you lost your chance with the cold and aloof vibe you gave off…

I guess I am not the only person who feels this way…

Women do not get a free pass just because they are a woman to not do any work at letting the other person know you want them…

As I said before… I am bi… not doing this for show… doing it because I found you attractive, interesting, and there was a connection between us… just as it has to be when with a man…

I am not going to simply do a bi-show for your entertainment….

Just something to ponder on your sexually social adventure….

Sophia