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Some of the Sexiest Things

Many times we are unaware of the sexiest things we come across because we get lost in the details and forget to pay attention to that which is happening around us…

Now, when I read that first statement a few times I wondered if what I expressed was in fact easy to understand in that statement. I think it is… however, if you read it without an understanding¬†of how details can distract then that sentence may not make much sense.

You see… a detailed oriented person (I am one) and a creative person (I am that too) see things differently. As a detailed person you pay attention to the details… but as we know in life… sometimes the details we pay attention to are not the details that matter… and as a creative person, you often see the details that are assumed frivolous to many but are quite important to understand the nuances of different people, experiences, and adventures…

If we cannot see the many sides of things then we are in fact shortening the possibility for enjoyment in the little things… and missing out on many great experiences in life… and on this sexually social adventure…

I have seen many people worry about the greater details in their profiles, their communication, and during play that the spontaneity of the sexual adventure is lost for them and those with them… and that is a sad, sad fact of sexually social adventures…

So many times the details of who, when, where, and how are more consuming than the act of consuming another person in a moment of awesome sexual experiences.

I am a person who loves to talk… but I am okay not talking when with another person in bed… I think that to speak with my mouth as in kissing or tasting them is far more important and delicious than any word I can utter…

To speak with my hands is an incredible opportunity to convey my passion, my joy, my contentment…

To close my eyes in bliss when I am cumming to delve deeper in the sensations my body is experiencing at the hands of my lover is incredible…

To bring that same sense of bliss to them… a gift that keeps on giving…

Some of the sexiest things are often missed because of the desire to accomplish all those little details… and to feel that a great thing was done instead of a great thing felt…

And you can fill in any word you want with THING…. a great sensation, a great emotional experience, a great sexual moment….

Some of the sexiest things are often missed because many do not see them as sexy…

After having some incredible sex and resting before round two or was it three… and laying next to each other… no talking and that beautifully peaceful and comfortable silence… feeling his heart beat as I lay upon his chest… his hands stroking my skin…

Seeing pleasure on a man’s face while he enters my core…slowly at first… building with desire…

Tasting a man’s sweat as you kiss his face, his chest, his arms… knowing your passion is what brought him to that state of being… and loving every moment of it…

Laughing with your lover as you talk about many topics… knowing that the sex and the friendship weaves a unique relationship between you two… one that brings pleasure in many ways to you both…

Grasping a man’s cock in your hand and hearing him take a breath…

Listening to a man ask you to do something just for him… knowing it is making him feel so good both sexually and emotionally… his needs being met…

A man who is tender one moment and the next… pounding you until you can’t take no more…

Hearing a hand smack your ass… feeling the sting…

Sucking a cock till it cums and is too sensitive to be touched again…

Kissing…. and kissing… and kissing some more… just because you can…

Tasting a pussy for the first time…

Laughing while having sex… isn’t it supposed to be fun…

When a cock is spent and laying there relaxed… and you place it in your mouth and bring it back to life…

Holding hands and kissing in public with someone not your spouse…

Feeling a cock enter you for the very first time and feeling like it belongs…

Exploring a whole new side of your sexually social adventure…

There are many things that are incredibly sexy and are worth every single moment of anticipation… yet, many overlook the sexy things that happen when you do not plan them to happen… when you take a conversation about one thing and it suddenly becomes an invitation to meet… and a meeting turns into flirting, and flirting turns into kissing… and you never even know their preferences….

Yeah, some of the sexiest things are the things that happen when you get out of the way and let them happen…

Hope you are enjoying your sexually social adventure…

Sophia