At Loss For Words

I have tried for hours to come up with a blog topic for today. I am at loss for words… Not because I have writers block but because I have too much to say and not sure how to get it out… I have some things going on lately that have really boggled my mind…

I wanted to write about some of them.. but it is too early to do so… it would not be a good thing after I posted some of this stuff… It may not go over well… but when it is time… I will… not trying to be cagey on what the topics are… but it is one that is very fresh in my head/life right now…

So, I have decided to make this blog post a bit different…

Here is my twitter handle… @sophiasays69… it is an interesting feed… and I have some interesting followers and those I follow… Hope you if you have a twitter account you follow me and let me know you follow me and my blog… I use the same photo of me so you should know that it is me… If you have never followed some of these types of twitter folks.. you may want to make a separate one for your sexually social adventure life and your vanilla life.. .may not want those you come in contact with in everyday life.. see some of the things shown and posted… but it is a lot of fun to have something a bit naughty to enjoy…

Here is an interesting link… http://www.businessinsider.com/which-sexual-fantasies-are-normal-2014-10

It is about the commonness of kinks… or at least certain kinks… you might find it interesting…

Another study provided these interesting facts… http://www.nationalsexstudy.indiana.edu/

• There is enormous variability in the sexual repertoires of U.S. adults, with more than 40 combinations of sexual activity described at adults’ most recent sexual event.
• Many older adults continue to have active pleasurable sex lives, reporting a range of different behaviors and partner types, however adults over the age of 40 have the lowest rates of condom use. Although these individuals may not be as concerned about pregnancy, this suggests the need to enhance education efforts for older individuals regarding STI risks and prevention.
• About 85% of men report that their partner had an orgasm at the most recent sexual event; this compares to the 64% of women who report having had an orgasm at their most recent sexual event. (A difference that is too large to be accounted for by some of the men having had male partners at their most recent event.)
• Men are more likely to orgasm when sex includes vaginal intercourse; women are more likely to orgasm when they engage in a variety of sex acts and when oral sex or vaginal intercourse is included.
• While about 7% of adult women and 8% of men identify as gay, lesbian or bisexual, the proportion of individuals in the U.S. who have had same-gender sexual interactions at some point in their lives is higher.
• Adults using a condom for intercourse were just as likely to rate the sexual extent positively in terms of arousal, pleasure and orgasm than when having intercourse without one.

I am in a odd little mood today… and was seeking out some ideas of what to write out… and I found some of these things… that brought up some interesting points… 

First of all, kinda curious about the 40 combinations of sexual activity described at adult’s most recent sexual event. That may be a point to investigate more… wonder if we have seen that in our most recent house party…. 

Well, not much else for me to write today… like I said… I have several topics in my head but the emotions are still too new and raw to discuss them now… 

Hope you are enjoying your sexually social adventure… 

Sophia